Open Question: I needed advise, what should I do?

5 February 2012, 2:48 am

It seemed like my boss may have liked me at one point. Once she called me and said "I haven't heard from you in awhile, I thought you may have gotten hurt." After not talking to her for 2 days. She told my friend she likes the comedic relief she gets when I call her during the day. We joke around a lot and she laughs at almost everything I say, if she didn't hear me she would laugh and say what was that? She gives me every Saturday off even though she could use me and gives me the full weekend whenever she can, she knows I hate working weekends. She doesn't make me wear the uniform pants. But the last 3 months she has been more serious. We still joke in person, but she doesn't ask when i'm going to visit her at the office and there is just a different, more serious undertone. And she started ignoring me calls and texts here and there. I was following her with a cart a couple Weeks ago and she looked back and laughed, when she realized I wasn't trying to playfully hit her like I have before she looks forward and goes about her business. When I told her I didn't get a promotion that would put me under someone else she said "I can't say i'm disappointed". I recently put in my notice because i'm going to focus on school. Since then, she always avoids my calls and it is hard to get ahold of her. When I ask why she didn't return them, she says she called back and I didn't answer. She has said that like 3 times in the last week, I know she is lying. She asked my friend to ask me if I could train someone a couple days after my last day. I seen her in person that same day and she didn't say anything about it, it's like she was afraid to ask me. I thought that was odd. It seems like she is avoiding me, yet my friend said she asked him if I would ever come back to the company some day. I don't know what to do.My last day is Wed and I want to ask her out then, but she is acting weird and like she wants nothing to do with me. I really like her, we're the same age.... Read More »

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